When Christ suffered in the Garden of Gethsemane, He felt the weight of all of our sins AND the sorrow for our infirmities--all of our heartache, pains, and sufferings of any kind. No matter how alone we may feel at times in our lives, we can turn to the Lord and know that He understands our every pain.
He beckons, "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you...and you will find rest unto your souls," (Matt. 11: 28-29)
When we are heavy laden with the sorrows of life, we can come unto the Lord and He can make our burdens feel light. To "yoke" means to become joined or linked together, and often refers to the harness that links oxen together before a cart. So, when we take His yoke upon us, He can help us carry our load so that it feels lighter. He doesn't necessarily take the burdens away from us, but He will carry them with us.
What does this mean for us? When we feel the desire to despair, when we feel as though no one can understand the pains we are coping with, when we feel like our burden is too heavy to bear, we can remember that the Lord suffered ALL for us and knows our infirmities.
The first prophet of the restoration, Joseph Smith, suffered unimaginable trials. He was persecuted and driven from place to place. His clothes were ripped from his back while his enemies coated his flesh in tar and feathers. He was wrongfully imprisoned. In his most painful hour, he turned to the Lord for comfort and strength. The Lord responded with this message:
"If thou art called to pass through tribulation...If thou art accused with all manner of false accusations...and if with a drawn sword thine enemies tear thee from the bosom of thy wife, and of thine offspring, and thine elder son, although but six years of age, shall cling to thy garments, and shall say, My father, my father, why can’t you stay with us? O, my father, what are the men going to do with you?...And if thou shouldst be cast into the pit, or into the hands of murderers, and the sentence of death passed upon thee;...and above all, if the very jaws of hell shall gape open the mouth wide after thee, know thou, my son, that all these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good. The Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater than he?" (Doctrine & Covenants 122:5-8)
The Son of Man, our Savior Jesus Christ hath descended below them all. He has suffered more than any man on this earth will ever suffer. We should note that He doesn't promise us a life free of suffering. He explains that the trials and sorrows we suffer in this life will "be for thy good." Paul also explains in Romans that, "...all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28, see also 38-39)
When we view our trials and sorrows as opportunities to grow and gain experience, and when we turn the the Lord so that He can help us carry our burdens, our load will be lightened. I can testify that by coming unto Christ, we can find "rest for our souls" and He can help us understand the purpose behind the sorrow we experience.
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As it is Thanksgiving this week, I would also like to suggest that we develop an attitude of gratitude in the trials we face. In 1 Thessalonians, we read, "In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you," (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Notice he does not say, "give thanks when times are happy," or "give thanks for all blessings." He says to give thanks in EVERY thing. I suggest that we seek to have gratitude in all situations and all trials. Not only will this help us see the reason behind our sufferings, but it can bring the peace of Jesus Christ into our hearts so that we feel lighter. We all have so much to be grateful for. We would do well to contemplate and meditate on what those blessings are specifically, rather than lumping them all together by saying, "we're thankful for our blessings." Let us take the time to give true thanks to the Lord for all things.